Alot of questions...

Lately alot of questions have crossed my puny mind.. I don't know why but I'm getting pretty fugged up about alot of ...STUFF.....questions questions questions...

NUMERO UNO:
Why is it when you happen to like someone and your friend just goes on telling that someone that I hung up the phone on them just to talk to ya?? Really yes I may like someone but my life don't revolve around that person and I don't have 'attachments' to people. In a way its spoiling current friend relationships if so and so gets the idea that i'm 'desperate' and that this is my character when I'm not what and if that so and so happens to avoid me like some infectious disease? In a way I could be losing a friend all due to your comments and assumptions. And therefore I really hope all friends out there will understand my point of view that some comments are really not welcome nor helpful wheather intended as a joke or as serious business.A simple comment could easily ruin the image of someone in another persons POV when in reality the person is not like that at all and this could subsequently lead to the breakdown of precious friendships.I won't comment no more on this topic and hope whoever is doing so spares a though for what these actions could bring.
NUMERO DUO:
This is just a passing thought and has absolutely no intention of being biased or religiouscist...forgive me should I hit a wrong nerve.
Lately the issue of 'TONGUE' as spoken by Christians has floated across my mind. According to my knowledge it is a language spoken that is only understood by God and not the Christians themselves. Then, pray may I ask,how do you communicate in a language which you do not understand and yet transmit the intended messege across to God? For all you know you could be saying some vulgarity and not whatever you want to say....??!!
Now wouldn't that be well....rude??
I mean, just imagine thousands of people cursing God at one go....now I doubt God would be one happy chappy.... 0.0
Now I am not saying that Christians out there are being rude but wouldn't it be better to at least know what you are communicating?
Somebody do enlighten me on this issue.

Disclaimer: I do believe in God but please realise that Christianity is not the only outlet for worship towards the Creator God. So do not accuse me of flaming cos I would not ever intend to flame an entity whom I worship. It is only beacuse different religions recognise Him under different names but beneath all He is still the same great God =)

I mean, If I wore pink today and tomorrow green, I'm still Reena right? or have I morphed into another identity?? 0.0

Anyway I suppose thats all I have to say.

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Back to NUMERO UNO...
Some people just do not realise what comments can do to other friendships though you intend no harm.
Its like you putting a plastic cup into an oven to heat up your milo and you have no intention of anything but to heat up your milo but hey when the plastic explodes/melts and your oven goes haywire do you intend to continue doing so and telling youself nothing will happen this time.. you are just heating up your milo what, I dont want the oven to explode la....you think I want the oven to explode?

Some actions have hidden consequences which people have to realise before doing or saying whatever pleases them. its all about fragility in certain situations.

But then.. DO ANY OF YOU PEOPLE SEE MY POINT OF VIEW??

obviously NO

so why am I wasting my time here? Maybe you think I'm over-reacting? PERHAPS. Call me FRUMPY/GRUMPY/NAGGY/THINK IM ALWAYS RIGHT..ETC

But perhaps you're the one thinking THAT WAY.
Maybe Ive bottled up all these for too long..the bottle can only hold so much, liquid aint compressible you know....

*shrugs*

I will just stop here today lest somebody continues the flowing tap and eventually cuts off friendship ties with me, speaking too much isnt good.

Perhaps I was too giving in the past? Hinting dont help. Why don't I just get it over n done with, mistakes should not be repeated.

Sorry I got the wrong messege across to you if I did, but after all.. its for your own good.You don't want to be the cause of breaking up other friendships though you may not mean it.

I'll shut up now.